Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!
The start of your journey into motherhood is always an exciting one because the entire journey is before you and full of new beginnings!
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.
One of the most exciting things about becoming a mother is the realization that YOU have the power to shape your child into the person they will become.
You’ll look up and down streets. Look ‘em over with care.
About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.”
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you’re too smart to go down any not-so-good street.
And you may not find any
you’ll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you’ll head straight out of town.
As a mother you have so many options before you to weigh and eventually decide which method is right for you, and you will likely find that no one particular philosophy fits you and your child
It’s opener there
in the wide open air.
Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainy
and footsy as you.
And then things start to happen,
don’t worry. Don’t stew.
Just go right along.
You’ll start happening too.
While finding your own path gives you the freedom to do what works for you and your child, it can also be challenging to go against the norm around you, but if you don’t stew about it, then you will find new confidence when you realize that you really do know what is best for you and your child!
OH!
THE PLACES YOU’LL GO!
You’ll be on your way up!
You’ll be seeing great sights!
You’ll join the high fliers
who soar to high heights.
You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed.
You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.
Those are the exciting moments of motherhood, when things are going right, and you feel like you have it together!
Except when you don’t.
Because, sometimes, you won’t.
I’m sorry to say so
but, sadly, it’s true
that Bang-ups
and Hang-ups
can happen to you.
But the reason motherhood is such a great adventure is because it is not an easy road. There are many bumps in the road, and there aren’t always signs warning you about the road ahead.
You can get all hung up
in a prickle-ly perch.
And your gang will fly on.
You’ll be left in a Lurch.
Some of those bumps will make you feel “left behind” as your friends and their kids move on to the next milestone.
You’ll come down from the Lurch
with an unpleasant bump.
And the chances are, then,
that you’ll be in a Slump.
And when you’re in a Slump,
you’re not in for much fun.
Un-slumping yourself
is not easily done.
Un-slumping yourself is not easily done, but it’s also not a good place to stay. Just because it’s not easy, doesn’t mean it’s impossible.
You will come to a place where the streets are not marked.
Some windows are lighted. But mostly they’re darked.
A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin!
Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in?
How much can you lose? How much can you win?
And IF you go in, should you turn left or right…
or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite?
Or go around back and sneak in from behind?
Simple it’s not, I’m afraid you will find,
for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.
This is the scary part of motherhood. When you realize that you haven’t a clue what to do. When you start weighing choices, wondering what the result will be of different choices.
You can get so confused
that you’ll start in to race
down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace
and grind on for miles cross weirdish wild space,
headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place…
…for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
or a bus to come, or a plane to go
or the mail to come, or the rain to go
or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow
or the waiting around for a Yes or No
or waiting for their hair to grow.
Everyone is just waiting.
Waiting for the fish to bite
or waiting for the wind to fly a kite
or waiting around for Friday night
or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting.
It does get confusing trying to find your way again, and it can make you feel panicked to the point that you start to race “down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace,” but eventually other people will force you to slow down because you truly can’t do it all by yourself and you will have to wait on them to make things happen.
NO!
That’s not for you!
Somehow you’ll escape
all that waiting and staying
You’ll find the bright places
where Boom Bands are playing.
With banner flip-flapping,
once more you’ll ride high!
Ready for anything under the sky.
Ready because you’re that kind of a guy!
No! That’s not for you! As Mom somehow you will find a way out of the lurch and find those bright places where boom bands are playing once again!
Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done!
There are points to be scored. There are games to be won.
And the magical things you can do with that ball
will make you the winning-est winner of all.
Fame! You’ll be as famous as famous can be,
with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.
Having come out of the lurch, you have grown stronger from your bumps in the road and are ready to take on new challenges! You’ve figured out how you fit in your relationships both old and new post-bump-in-the-road!
Except when they don’t
Because, sometimes they won’t.
I’m afraid that some times
you’ll play lonely games too.
Games you can’t win
’cause you’ll play against you.
The truth is though that motherhood is not a journey you can take with friends….motherhood is a journey that you have to take alone because each person’s journey is different.
All Alone!
Whether you like it or not,
Alone will be something
you’ll be quite a lot.
And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance
you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants.
There are some, down the road between hither and yon,
that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.
And there are definitely things on the journey that will test your courage.
But on you will go
though the weather be foul.
On you will go
though your enemies prowl.
On you will go
though the Hakken-Kraks howl.
Onward up many
a frightening creek,
though your arms may get sore
and your sneakers may leak.
On and on you will hike,
And I know you’ll hike far
and face up to your problems
whatever they are.
But, because you are someone’s Mommy, you will face up to your problems whatever they are because your child depends on you.
You’ll get mixed up, of course,
as you already know.
You’ll get mixed up
with many strange birds as you go.
So be sure when you step.
Step with care and great tact
and remember that Life’s
a Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And never mix up your right foot with your left.
Keeping your center is the key to surviving those moments. When we loose sight of our center, we can easily become unbalanced or even mix up our right food with our left.
And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.)
Yes, you will indeed succeed, but I think that along the journey of motherhood your definition of success will change because motherhood teaches you that life is not about what we typically think of as success. It’s about the journey, the heart of the person making that journey, and the lessons learned along the way.
KID, YOU’LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!
…and from the perspective of your child, you really will move mountains!
So…
be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
or Mordecai Ali Van Allen O’Shea,
You’re off the Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!
No matter who you are, you really are off to great places and today is your day! That mountain is waiting with your name on it, so take courage, and get on your way!